MATTHEW 5:43-48
During the American Civil War, hatred spread between North and South. At a time, President Abraham Lincoln was criticised for speaking about the benevolent treatment of rebels in the south. The critic reminded him that a war was ongoing, that the Confederates were the enemy and had to be destroyed. But Lincoln wisely replied, “I destroy my enemies when I make them my friends.”
Lincoln’s comment is illuminating. Jesus’ teaching in the Sermon on the Mount reflects the need to love our enemies.
In this life we will meet difficult people, some of whom we have to set boundaries for, but giving in to the temptation to undermine or hurt them in any way is not God’s way. We need to pray for them (and Jesus meant good prayers), be considerate and look out for their best interests. This can turn an enemy into a friend.
Keep in mind that not everyone will respond positively to us, but we can pray and plan for a more harmonious relationship. Think of that difficult person you can start to make friends with?
🙏🏼Lord, some people are difficult to love. But You showed love to us even when we were Your enemies. Please direct us into ways to love with Your power and grace.
